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Blowjobs: How to Get Them & Make Them Good for Her Too

Hey there! Let’s talk about something that some people might find a little uncomfortable– getting a blowjob. It’s okay if you want one, and it’s okay if your partner doesn’t want to give you one.

We have some tips on how to get what you want (or not), and also some advice on how to be a good partner in general, whether or not blowjobs are on the table. First up: why do some girls avoid giving blowjobs?

Well, there are a lot of reasons. Maybe they don’t enjoy it, or they find it’s not very rewarding for them (and let’s face it, if one partner isn’t having a good time, both partners aren’t going to have a great experience).

Or maybe they’re just not turned on by the idea. So, if you’re looking to convince a girl to give you a blowjob, here are some things to keep in mind.

First of all, make it a trade. If you want her to pleasure you in a way that she’s not enjoying, you should be willing to do something for her that you don’t love either.

Maybe that means giving her a really indulgent massage, or watching a movie she’s been wanting to see even though it’s not your cup of tea. Show her that you’re not just in it for yourself, and she’ll be more motivated to make you happy too.

Second, make sure you’re behaving well outside of the bedroom. If you’re a good boyfriend or husband or friend with benefits, your partner will be more likely to want to please you sexually as well.

That means listening to her when she talks, being grateful for the things she does for you, and being generally sweet and affectionate. Nobody wants to have sex with someone who’s a jerk outside of the bedroom.

Third, show her that it can be a good time for both of you. Maybe try incorporating some new positions or techniques, or using toys or lubes that can make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.

Talk to her about how amazing it was last time she did give you a blowjob, and let her know that you really appreciate her effort. Fourth, make sure you’re giving her pleasure too.

If your partner feels like she’s just servicing you and not enjoying herself, she’s not going to be motivated to do it again. Make sure she knows that her pleasure is just as important as yours, and be willing to put in some effort to make sure she’s having a good time too.

Finally, remember to be gentle with her. If your partner is nervous or apprehensive about giving you a blowjob, don’t push her head down there or expect her to just know what to do.

Be patient and communicative, and let her know that you’re in this together. And don’t forget to give her a warning when you’re about to finish!

On the flip side, here are some things NOT to do if you want a blowjob from someone.

First of all, don’t push her head down there silently and expect her to just do it. That’s not only rude, it’s also a form of coercion that’s not okay.

You should never pressure someone into doing something sexually that they’re not comfortable with. Second, don’t ask her why she never gives you blowjobs.

That’s going to put her on the defensive and make her feel like she’s doing something wrong. Instead, focus on showing her what you appreciate about her and what you’re willing to do to make her feel good.

Third, don’t talk about an ex who “always did” or expect that just because someone you’ve been with in the past liked to do something means that everyone should. Every person is different, and what works for one person might not work for another.

Don’t put pressure on your current partner to live up to the standards of someone else. Finally, don’t ignore your partner and move on if she’s not willing to give you a blowjob.

If that’s a dealbreaker for you, that’s okay, but be upfront and honest about it. Don’t try to manipulate or coerce someone into doing something they’re not comfortable with just because you want it.

Okay, that’s enough about blowjobs. Let’s talk about why it’s important to be a good boyfriend, husband, or friend with benefits in general.

The truth is, sex is more than just a physical act– there’s an emotional and mental component to it as well. If your partner doesn’t feel safe, respected, and valued outside of the bedroom, it’s going to be difficult for them to enjoy sex with you.

Being a good partner means being there for your partner, listening to them, and being grateful for the things they do for you. It means being kind and affectionate, even when you’re not looking to have sex.

And it means making an effort to communicate openly and honestly about what you want, both sexually and emotionally. Remember, being a good partner isn’t just about what you can get from your relationship– it’s about what you can give as well.

If you’re willing to put in the effort to make your partner feel appreciated, valued, and respected, you’ll have a much more fulfilling relationship overall. And who knows, maybe blowjobs will be on the table too.

Thanks for reading, and remember to always be respectful and communicative with your partner, no matter what you’re hoping to get out of your relationship. Good luck!

Welcome back! In our previous article, we talked about how to get a blowjob, and how to be a good partner in general.

Now, we’re going to take it one step further and talk about how to please her equally, and how to make the experience good for her too. First things first – if you want to receive pleasure, you should be willing to give it.

It’s not a one-way street. Pleasure should be a trade, not a transaction.

If you’re expecting pleasure from your partner, make sure you’re doing your part to please her in other ways. That means finding out what your partner likes, and doing your best to give it to her.

Maybe she’s not into giving blowjobs, but she loves receiving oral sex. Maybe she’s not a fan of penetrative sex, but she really enjoys manual stimulation.

Whatever it is, make sure you’re working hard to give her pleasure too. It’s also important to remember that women like pleasure too.

It’s not just a one-way street where you’re the only one who gets to experience pleasure. That’s not fair or respectful.

Be generous, be considerate, and don’t be selfish. Work hard to make her finish, and make sure she knows that you care about her pleasure too.

When it comes to blowjobs specifically, there are a few things you can do to make the experience good for her too. First of all, make sure you’re not physically making her gag.

This can be uncomfortable and even painful for some women. Ask her what she likes and what she doesn’t like, and make sure you’re not pushing her past her limits.

Additionally, you could try stimulating her at the same time. If she’s into it, you could try using your hands or a toy to give her pleasure while she’s giving you a blowjob.

Not only will this enhance the experience for her, it can also make it more enjoyable for you too. Another way to make the experience more interesting for both of you is to make a game out of it.

Set a timer and see how long she can keep going, or try different positions and techniques to see what works best for both of you. Don’t be afraid to experiment and try new things together.

Finally, remember that girls want to make other people happy too. If your partner is willing to give you a blowjob, she’s doing it because she wants to make you feel good.

Show her your appreciation and gratitude for her effort. Let her know how much you enjoy it, and make sure she knows that you don’t take it for granted.

At the end of the day, sex should be a mutual experience where both partners are enjoying themselves. It’s not fair or respectful to expect pleasure without giving it in return.

So, if you’re looking to receive pleasure, make sure you’re willing to give it too. Remember to be generous, be considerate, and be respectful.

Ask your partner what she likes and what she doesn’t like, and make sure you’re not pushing her past her limits. And most importantly, show her your appreciation and gratitude for her efforts to please you.

Blowjobs are an intimate act that require a certain level of trust and comfort between partners. While some women are comfortable giving blowjobs to casual partners, others prefer to reserve it for their boyfriends or long-term partners.

This is because women want to make sure that they’re with someone they trust and feel safe with. They want to feel like they’re doing something special and intimate, and not just pleasing a stranger.

For many women, giving a blowjob is an act that they reserve for only the people they truly care about. It’s important to respect your partner’s boundaries and preferences when it comes to sexual acts, and not to pressure her into doing something she’s not comfortable with.

If your partner doesn’t want to give you a blowjob, that’s okay. Find other ways to enjoy sexual pleasure together that you’re both comfortable with.

It’s also important to remember that your partner is not a sex slave. She’s not there to only serve your needs and desires.

It’s important to reciprocate and pay attention to her needs and desires too. Make sure she’s comfortable, and give her pleasure in ways that she enjoys too.

If your partner does decide to give you a blowjob, make sure you’re showing her that you appreciate it. Let her know how much you enjoy it and how special it is to you.

Don’t take it for granted or expect it every time. Remember that this is an intimate act that requires a certain level of trust and comfort between partners.

In addition, make sure you’re paying attention to her body language and verbal cues. If she seems uncomfortable or like she’s not enjoying herself, it’s important to stop and check in with her.

Don’t push her past her limits or ignore her discomfort. Remember that your partner’s pleasure and comfort should always be a top priority.

Ultimately, blowjobs are just one way to enjoy sexual pleasure together. If your partner isn’t comfortable with it, don’t pressure her and find other ways to enjoy intimacy together.

And if your partner does decide to give you a blowjob, make sure you’re showing her that you appreciate it and that her comfort and pleasure are a top priority. In summary, the topics mentioned in this article highlighted the importance of being a considerate and respectful partner, especially when it comes to sexual acts such as blowjobs.

It’s crucial to prioritize your partner’s comfort and pleasure at all times, and not to pressure them into doing something they’re not comfortable with. Understanding your partner’s boundaries, preferences, and desires is key to building a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship.

By prioritizing mutual pleasure and respect, and by being open to communication and experimentation, you can build a strong and intimate bond with your partner that includes mutual satisfaction and enjoyment.

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